#VibrationalArena Archives - Dialogues of Discernment

I heard on the radio today a reminder that it’s Maundy Thursday, the day when JC said:

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Amen.

Yesterday, a beautiful Vibrational Arena was created at our home and we (me, G, girls, Dad and J) did all Join wonderfully. The girls were amazing in contributing with cooking and chatting and hosting… And I took seriously the commandment to go softly and focus on the Vibrational Arena for Joining. I managed my energy and my boundaries – reasonably well. We all felt close. My Dad felt held and loved I think, and J too. It was a blessed day.

Today is my first day of my Five Day Stay-at-Home Retreat over Easter. Guide me to use it wisely and well. I am keen to rest and to get clarity – and also to take actions that will impact the future positively.

Time to move your body.

Yes, it sure is. I haven’t walked properly for days… Nor done my qigong.

That is why you feel heavy.

I’ve been eating and drinking like a merry Tudor too.

Holiday season – and hard emotional challenges. You are doing really well. You could be well proud of yourself.

I have felt a little bit unbalanced.

We know, dear soul. You are holding space for a lot. You have worked extremely hard since Christmas. You have had big social occasions for the first time in months. You’ve had the vaccine chugging through you. You are still reeling from the shocks upon your family. You are pleased for the week’s break, but also missing its routine. You have your beautiful youngest home which is a new focus of your heart’s attention. The clocks have changed, so suddenly your evenings don’t feel like evenings.

Ty. All this. And I feel a little bit dissociative – lots of staring at Instagram, ‘holiday drinking’, compulsive Homeland watching…

So what practices get you back in your body and your world?

Tidying, cleaning, sorting, qigong, walking… People keep f-ing messaging me! Maybe I need to tell people I’m going offline a bit. I LONG TO MAKE MYSELF AVAILABLE TO DOWNLOADS OF NEW WISDOM… without forcing it. But it’s so uncomfy to get to that stillpoint!

Sounds like you are trying, or wanting, or desiring, to create a Vibrational Arena for Joining with yourself.

YES!

I am!

I’ve so over-serviced my relationships in work and life… to the degree I’m not doing so well. The judging, the criticising, the over-sharing, the poor boundaries…

Oop. Back you come, sweet soul! Let’s refocus.

You seek to create a Vibrational Arena for Joining with yourself.

This means… Well, let’s go in for a few minutes and find out what it means…

Ok. Ty.

***15mins with Insight Timer***

It means to become more connected every day, to the source of all creation, of all knowledge, of all knowing.

Yes. Like an antenna reaching out of us… mingling with the higher frequencies.

When you ask yourself – what is the purpose of my day, and find that the answer you hear is ‘to channel spirit’ you know you have arrived at a new juncture.

What does it mean to channel spirit?

It means to get out of the way of the egoic self (easier said than done, but part of the overall life learning and mastery of self) and Make Way For, Yield Unto… something more knowing than the human mind alone can ever be.

Is this like having psychic abilities?

Every one can be said to have psychic abilities. You know that. We are talking about Making Way For, Yielding Unto something greater than the parsimonious day to day concerns.

Remind me – parsimonious?

[Parsimonious: not willing to spend money or to give or use a lot of something]

Stingy..

Miserly, begrudging… In other words, inherent in your day to day concerns, there is a lack of generosity. Hence the egoic influence – making for selfishness, or self-seekingness. The spirit channelling we are talking about here has such an infinite sense of abundance that it can barely ‘contain itself’.

I think of Teal Swan… the generosity of her teachings. And Abraham-Hicks.

There’s an outward flow, isn’t there? Like a dam broke, once and for all.

And what would that look like for or in me?

To be simple and honest, it would look like Joy. Joy is the antithesis of parsimony, because it ‘wells up’ from an infinite well.

Sometimes my Joy is limited…

Not so much that. More… you haven’t always prioritised Joy as the key calling in your life. Right?

Aha. True. Like ‘follow your bliss’ – for a long time I had no idea what that meant! I do a little more now, but there’s some way to go….

Try the exhortation to ‘follow your joy’ in order to develop your Vibrational Arena for Joining with yourself.

Ooh. Ok. I will. Help me understand TRUE joy – not dissociative zoning out – but TRUE full rich abundant up-welling JOY. Tysm. Amen.

And remember – we are channelling something new here.

Are we channelling joy?

Let’s say we are. Excellent work.

I am channelling joy

If Radical Love is the purpose, good healthy boundaries are the key. Counter-intuitive? This came up for me in a Listening Space session yesterday, when I enquired of myself about my unpleasant incidents of finding myself being critical or judgemental of others – in particular those I am in a working relationship with, or a supportive relationship. It all, I discovered, came down to poor boundary setting on my part. When I have good boundaries, I have no need to sound off about others. I can practise it with clients, so now it’s time to practise it with others I am in a less clearcut relationship with. It’s especially those who I think I am supporting non-professionally, and who, because of lack of good boundaries on my part, I then think should be reciprocating to me in some way. Not nice…

Easy tiger. Gentle on yourself. This is good work. Yes, the topic of healthy boundaries is still there to be worked on.

What might I learn today? I should update you btw. Yesterday I had my Covid-19 vaccination – feeling a bit ropey, but not too bad, thank goodness! Also, today, in Day 3 of lockdown easing, we are having our second Rule of 6 picnic in the garden (first was on Mon – G’s mum’s birthday!). My beloved Dad and J are coming, and my gorgeous girls will be here too, with me & G.

Pick up Bringers of the Dawn..

Ah yes. Page 146. ‘You must be able to master who you are.‘ Physically, psychologically, psychically…

Do you spot the reference to people being ‘coded to teach themselves‘?

Yes. Page 147.

Teaching yourself about Personal Boundaries is a key aspect of mastering who you are. Do you understand that? This is not secondary or additional work, it is core curriculum.

And how can I help ‘teach myself’ today?

The mark of healthy personal boundaries is excellent energy management. Do you hear that? Excellent energy management means

a) the will to take action early as needed, not procrastinate out of fear of the other and
b) the will to expend minimal energy in pursuit of your good relationships.

A misunderstanding of the human mind is that ‘one must expend maximal energy to show another that we love them’. The opposite could almost be said to be true. Why? Because JOINING is the purpose and work of human relations, and hand-splashing (or exerting energy to force results) is the antithesis of JOINING.

Were you to sit and meditate on your patio all morning in anticipation of your father’s arrival, you would be better placed to meet him, and the space would be more effectively set for his arrival, than if you spent three hours rushing about cooking and sprucing and … [you can say it…] fussing.

Fussing? Ha! Very sassy. I hear you.

This is not to say you can’t prepare lunch and wipe the winter’s dirt off the outside loo. But, you must master your inner state, so that all you do is in vibrational alignment with the impact you are seeking to engender, which is JOINING.

So the spirit I bring to preparing the space is as important as the actual tasks I accomplish.

More important. We are talking about two completely different timelines here.

Fussy vs fuss-free.

There is drama in that statement. Go back to the origins of this dialogue: good boundaries permit good joining.

You are asking yourself, ‘Where are the boundaries of my healthy energy expenditure?’ – especially as your body is still managing the effects of the vaccine. But more than anything, you are asking yourself, ‘What vibrational arena am I creating for maximal Joining today?’

‘Vibrational arena’… Ooh I love that term.

You can apply it to your work, your relationships, your home.

I really like this. Today I will play with this power we have to create vibrational arenas for maximal Joining. Anything else you’d like me to know?

Be soft… softer still… That’s it. How delicate is this work… How acutely delicate! Do not under-estimate the vibrational impact of your every thought and action. Bring softness to your thinking and to your actions. Know that, in the higher realms, a thought can launch an avalanche. Therefore, take care that your thoughts are representative of the avalanche you are seeking to set forth – an avalanche of confusion, an avalanche of love, an avalanche of sadness, or an avalanche of healing? All options – or timelines – are available to you, creative beings. Therefore, go upstream, go to the top of the snowy mountain, and set the course of your timeline consciously.

I set an intention of Joining – amongst us as a family. Gently. Softly. Ease-ily.

Beautiful.

I am creating a vibrational arena for our Joining

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